Have you ever put on a pair of heels and felt that those shoes made you sexy?  I wear high heels almost every day.  I torture myself with three to four inches of height to overcome my irrational notion that I must be taller to be sexy.

The other day I put on a pair of low heel shoes and felt unattractive the entire day.  The shoes really don’t change the way I look with the exception of my height, but in my own self-absorbed brain I was less sexy that day.

Shoes play an important role to many women and their sex lives.  We use shoes to appear sexy, to lure tepid men/women into our sexual lair for an Earth shattering sexual encounter… Okay, maybe that’s going a bit far. It’s how we perceive shoes that gives them their sex appeal.

Men and women alike love sexy shoes and many of us love them in bed.  Local radio host Seth from 97x admits on-air that his girlfriend (Phoebe from 97x) has quite a collection of sexy shoes for bedroom activities. Do the shoes make the sex better?  Of course they do.  Shoes are another fetish that arouses the mind, tempts the taste buds, and fills our heads with dirty thoughts. Whether I am wearing a sexy pair of high heels with a business suit, short shorts, or a nightie, my shoes help make me a sexual object of desire.

Upon meeting a woman for the first time, among  the initial things I notice are her eyes, breasts, and shoes.  If this woman is hot from top to bottom, but wearing Uggs, I’m probably going to make a less than stellar judgment about her sexual prowess.  To me, shoes convey a part of us.  Flats, flip flops, and tennis shoes may be cute and cuddly, but not kinky or sexual.  I may be prime and proper during the day from my head to my ankles, but you can bet I at least have on sexy heels, allowing this sliver of sexiness to infiltrate the vanilla world.

Believe it or not, there may even be some scientific evidence that links high heels to an enhanced sex life:

A study in the journal European Urology found that wearing high heels slightly enhanced the contracting power of the pelvic floor muscles… Some people have said the findings from the study mean that wearing high heels will enhance your sex life.

Maybe the pain in my feet is paying off after all.  You may like pretty eyes, round firm breasts, and a bubble butt, but never forget to check out the shoes.  These play a more important role in sexuality than you may have ever imagined!